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          ould-be restaurateurs often
        
        
          approach Josh Grapski to “pick
        
        
          his brain.” That’s not surprising.
        
        
          Grapski is president of La Vida Hospitality,
        
        
          which owns and operates Nage and Big
        
        
          Chill Surf Cantina on Route 1 in Rehoboth
        
        
          Beach, as well as the Taco Rehoboth food
        
        
          truck and Crooked Hammock, a brewpub
        
        
          under construction just outside Lewes.
        
        
          Grapski can generally separate them into
        
        
          three categories. There are the home chefs,
        
        
          who want to share their recipes with the
        
        
          masses. Others are attracted by the lifestyle.
        
        
          “Man, your business looks like so much
        
        
          fun,” they tell Grapski. “I would love to
        
        
          work in a restaurant — it wouldn’t feel like
        
        
          work.” Then there are those who think their
        
        
          concept is “a home run.” The proximity to
        
        
          the sea sweetens the appeal.
        
        
          They all have one thing in common: “They’re
        
        
          thinking of one small aspect to a business
        
        
          that has a lot of components,” says Grapski,
        
        
          who has a bachelor’s degree in hospitality
        
        
          management from Cornell University and is
        
        
          also a graduate of The Restaurant School at
        
        
          Walnut Hill College in Philadelphia. “They
        
        
          might have a great apple pie, but they don’t
        
        
          know how to market it, or how much
        
        
          money they need to run a business or how
        
        
          to operate it.”
        
        
          Yet some will still plunge into the business
        
        
          — and plenty will fail. According to research
        
        
          by H.G. Parsa, a professor in Ohio State
        
        
          University’s Hospitality Management
        
        
          program, one in four restaurants close or
        
        
          change hands within the first year. Over
        
        
          the next three years, the sell-or-fail rate
        
        
          soars to three in five. The “good” news:
        
        
          The numbers are standard with most
        
        
          new businesses, according to the Small
        
        
          Business Administration and Bureau of
        
        
          Labor Statistics.
        
        
          Before you breathe easy, remember that a
        
        
          resort town can heighten the challenge. As
        
        
          Carrie Leishman, president and CEO of the
        
        
          Delaware Restaurant Association, advises,
        
        
          “Buckle up and go in with your head
        
        
          on straight.”
        
        
          Like any other career, you must train for
        
        
          the profession, says Grapski, who helped
        
        
          open restaurants in Palm Springs, Calif.,
        
        
          and New Orleans before joining mentor
        
        
          Kevin Reading at Nage in 2004. (He
        
        
          became the sole owner in 2010.) “My first
        
        
          piece of advice is don’t think about owning
        
        
          a restaurant until you’ve worked in a
        
        
          restaurant for at least one full year,” he says.
        
        
          Mike Clampitt, who in 2013 purchased
        
        
          Po’ Boys Creole & Fresh Catch in Milton,
        
        
          gained solid experience in bookkeeping,
        
        
          inventory and management while working
        
        
          as the executive chef at Baywood Greens,
        
        
          a public golf club in Long Neck. A former
        
        
          chef at the Blue Moon, he’s been in the
        
        
          restaurant business since he was 15.
        
        
          Inexperienced owners need good managers.
        
        
          When Eden changed hands in 2006, much
        
        
          of the staff stayed on, says Meghan Gardner,
        
        
          who with husband Lion and two other
        
        
          partners own the Blue Moon in Rehoboth
        
        
          Beach. Lion was the executive chef at Eden
        
        
          at the time the new owners, who were not
        
        
          experienced, bought it.
        
        
          Grapski says a staff of full-time residents
        
        
          is key along the coast, given the many
        
        
          small communities. “Community relations
        
        
          are much more important than an ad in
        
        
          the paper.”
        
        
          Locals are important in other respects.
        
        
          Tucked in a tiny strip center, Po’ Boys gets
        
        
          90 percent of its business from Milton-area
        
        
          By Pam George
        
        
          
            So You Want to
          
        
        
          
            Own a Restaurant?
          
        
        
          
            The demands are a recipe for failure unless one prepares well,
          
        
        
          
            say those who’ve risen to the challenge.