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          SAI’s business development director, hopes to return
        
        
          with new digital-marketing ideas and relationships
        
        
          with potential clients and helpful contacts.
        
        
          A record 70 million people will attend conferences
        
        
          in the U.S. and Canada this year, with attendance
        
        
          expected to peak next month, industry research
        
        
          shows. The experience can be overwhelming.
        
        
          Conferences usually last one to four days. Content
        
        
          Marketing World offers 80 breakout sessions, with
        
        
          time to attend only 11. It sprawls over 270,000
        
        
          square feet of the Cleveland Convention Center.
        
        
          Sessions include “Breakthrough Moments in Content
        
        
          Marketing.” Eight networking sessions are scheduled
        
        
          to allow the 2,600 attendees time to meet.
        
        
          Along with the usual speeches by celebrities and
        
        
          exhibits, Content Marketing World provides social
        
        
          activities such as “our own music festival” with a
        
        
          Beatles tribute band and “Shooters on the Water,”
        
        
          an after party starting at 10:30 p.m.
        
        
          No matter what session conference attendees pick,
        
        
          they worry they’re missing a better one. The best
        
        
          networking may be in one session while the best
        
        
          speakers are elsewhere, Ms. Stanley says. She
        
        
          comes in with her schedule highlighted in neon yellow
        
        
          for “must attend” sessions and amber for “maybe.”
        
        
          “You really have to be on your A game,” she says.
        
        
          “You’re networking and getting all that information,
        
        
          plus giving your pitch and telling people about your
        
        
          company. It’s exhausting.”
        
        
          She works out to build energy, rising by 6 a.m. to
        
        
          lift weights and run 3 to 5 miles. On the treadmill,
        
        
          she mentally rehearses different versions of her
        
        
          opening pitch to suit different people. To help her
        
        
          resist the free candy and junk food that abound in
        
        
          most exhibit halls, she stuffs granola bars into her
        
        
          shoulder bag.
        
        
          Ms. Stanley resists the temptation to befriend other
        
        
          new arrivals and travel with one group. “I have to
        
        
          stay focused on my goals, getting new ideas and
        
        
          new contacts,” she says.
        
        
          She positions herself by the coffee pot for the first
        
        
          networking session; talking about the coffee can be
        
        
          a good icebreaker. She considers introducing herself
        
        
          to another attendee standing alone nearby, but she
        
        
          hesitates, and the opportunity is lost when another
        
        
          attendee approaches the man. Ms. Stanley tells
        
        
          herself. “You’re here to network. One, two, three, go!”
        
        
          Meeting conference speakers, who tend to be high-
        
        
          level executives, is a key networking opportunity
        
        
          for Ms. Stanley in her search for corporate clients.
        
        
          She is nervous as she waits in line with a dozen
        
        
          others to introduce herself to Katrina Craigwell,
        
        
          global manager of digital marketing at General
        
        
          Electric Co., after Ms. Craigwell’s presentation
        
        
          on a successful digital-marketing campaign. Ms.
        
        
          Stanley plans to take Ms. Craigwell’s ideas, such
        
        
          as promoting GE research with videos on social
        
        
          media, back to her SAI team. She also hopes Ms.
        
        
          Craigwell will put her in touch with colleagues at GE
        
        
          who might be interested in SAI’s services.
        
        
          Brazilian by birth, Ms. Stanley values Latin cultures’
        
        
          emphasis on warmth and spontaneity. When her
        
        
          turn finally comes to speak with Ms. Craigwell, she
        
        
          says, “You were wonderful. I felt as if I knew you.”
        
        
          The executive responds with equal warmth and
        
        
          promptly emails Ms. Stanley’s contact information
        
        
          to a colleague.
        
        
          Later, as she prepares to introduce herself to another
        
        
          speaker, Ms. Stanley gives herself a pep talk: “What’s
        
        
          the worst that can happen? He’ll say no. What’s so
        
        
          awful about that?” Her friendly approach sparks a
        
        
          conversation about how SAI might help his company,
        
        
          and they part with plans for another meeting. Ms.
        
        
          Stanley notes on each business card the follow-up
        
        
          steps she promised to take.
        
        
          By late afternoon, her energy wanes. She downs her
        
        
          third coffee of the day. Hungry after having only a
        
        
          salad for lunch, she allows herself a bag of Doritos,
        
        
          then heads for the last breakout session of the day.
        
        
          Blocked at the door by a security guard and a sign,
        
        
          “Session Full,” Ms. Stanley talks her way in with a
        
        
          joke. The guard laughs and opens the door.
        
        
          Ms. Stanley passes up an opening-night pub crawl.
        
        
          Networking with strangers over drinks “has never
        
        
          proven effective for me,” she says. The music festival
        
        
          on the second evening is unusual enough to lure her.
        
        
          She leaves after 45 minutes. “I prefer to go to bed
        
        
          early and be focused on the next day,” she says.
        
        
          Ms. Stanley once slept through a meeting because
        
        
          her cellphone died, she says. She now arranges a
        
        
          wake-up call from her hotel, in addition to setting
        
        
          the alarm on her smartphone.
        
        
          At a breakout session on the last day, she finds a
        
        
          seat near the front, only to realize that she already
        
        
          knows the information being presented. Usually,
        
        
          she avoids sitting too close to the front so she can
        
        
          see who else is present, and also so she can slip
        
        
          out quietly if necessary. “I picked the wrong seat”
        
        
          this time, she says.
        
        
          On the last day, more than an hour before a closing
        
        
          keynote speech by actor Kevin Spacey, hundreds line
        
        
          up for seats. Ms. Stanley strides past them on her way
        
        
          to a panel discussion. “I’m not going to not network
        
        
          so I can be in the front row for Kevin Spacey,” she
        
        
          says. “You have to keep in mind your goal.”
        
        
          Later, Ms. Stanley takes stock: She has reaped several
        
        
          good ideas and a grasp of emerging trends such as
        
        
          using journalistic techniques to attract customers on
        
        
          social media and the Web. She collected 20 business
        
        
          cards, initiated promising relationships with four
        
        
          potential clients, and made five “fair-to-good” new
        
        
          contacts. She isn’t done. Many people only took her
        
        
          card or gave her a colleague’s name. But she will
        
        
          follow up with them all.
        
        
          
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          > “YOU REALLY HAVE
        
        
          TO BE ON YOUR A GAME,”
        
        
          SHE SAYS. “YOU’RE
        
        
          NETWORKING AND GETTING
        
        
          ALL THAT INFORMATION,
        
        
          PLUS GIVING YOUR PITCH
        
        
          AND TELLING PEOPLE
        
        
          ABOUT YOUR COMPANY.
        
        
          IT’S EXHAUSTING.”